IBD/sync speedups: parallel RandomX pre-verify, adaptive dbcache, P2P download fixes

- Parallel RandomX PoW pre-verification pool (CCheckQueue) run ahead of the serial
  connect; consensus-neutral (inline CheckRandomXSolution fallback still verifies
  anything not pre-verified). New -randomxverifythreads (default = -par).
- Adaptive dbcache: default sizes the UTXO/coins cache to most of RAM and shrinks
  under memory pressure, always leaving a reserve free; -dbcache pins a fixed value.
- P2P block download: bounded socket recv-drain loop (tlsmanager); frontier-block
  reassignment to break head-of-line stalls (-blockreassigntimeout); ProcessGetData
  serves a bounded batch of blocks per pass instead of one (fixes the serve-side
  one-block-per-tick throttle that caps download network-wide).
- assumeutxo: dumptxoutset RPC + LoadSnapshot machinery + AssumeutxoData chainparams.
- Signed bootstrap verification (util/bootstrap-dragonx.sh, util/sign-bootstrap.md).
- gtest: RandomX pre-verify consensus-equivalence test + UTXO-snapshot round-trip;
  revived the gtest harness (Makefile.am include fix, Makefile.gtest.include).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/Makefile.am

@@ -685,5 +685,5 @@ endif
 if ENABLE_TESTS
 #include Makefile.test-hush.include
 #include Makefile.test.include
-#include Makefile.gtest.include
+include Makefile.gtest.include
 endif